Suspicions

The three boys sat in a row, Like rabbits caught in the glare of car headlights: “Tharn” was the word on Watership Down. Father had told them to be quiet and polite when visitors called, And they all obeyed. They knew their place. Even if fearful, it was better not to speak up, rock the … Read more

The Fly on the Wall : 1

I am watching the fly crawling up the wall. Why doesn’t it fall off? I seem to remember a teacher once tried to explain how they hold on, even on to windows and ceilings. Maybe if I could do that I would have got away from the filth that night and never have ended up … Read more

The World on Their Shoulders

Traditionally it was Atlas who had the task of carrying the world on his shoulders, and there are many adults today in positions of leadership and responsibility who tend to look and as if they also have much, if not all, of the world on theirs. Think of the General Secretary of the United Nations, … Read more

Harvest Thanksgiving

One of the recurring themes of the In Residence column over the past seven years has been the importance of predictable patterns and rhythms in the lives of children and young people.  Such patterns span those that are daily, weekly, monthly, termly and those that are yearly.  With the demise of religious rituals in the … Read more

How to Avoid the Lunch Box Blues

Does your child’s lunch box contain rice cakes, cottage cheese, apricots and water as recommended by the new Government school food watchdog? Or is it stuffed full of sweets, fizzy pop and a white bread sandwich thrown together as you rushed out of the door this morning? While the cottage cheese option is guaranteed to … Read more

In Care : The Black Bin Bags : 2

To learn about the background to this episode, you need to read the first instalment, so click here. When we got to the Assessment Centre there was another woman on the way out with another kid with two or three bin bags. I wondered what an Assessment Centre was. I find it surprising how many … Read more

Our Legacy

Before reading this poem, read the correspondence entitled Children in Iraq. Wherever men use weapons To sort out their affairs, They leave embittered victims, A legacy for their heirs. For fighting is not tidy. It leaves a trail behind Of damaged children, broken In body or in mind. A legacy still living, We pass on … Read more

Back to Basics Play Initiative

Pathway Care, an independent fostering agency which cares for up to 500 children throughout England and Wales at any one time, says play is a natural way for children to learn about the world around them, express their thoughts and feelings, and to develop social skills and learn self control. It has therefore launched its … Read more

In Care : The Black Bin Bags : 1

I turned into the entrance way to the block of flats I now called home. I stopped dead. There was a pile of black plastic sacks at the bottom of the steps, awaiting refuse collection. I had one of those uncomfortable flashbacks which could still be triggered after all these years. Black plastic sacks were … Read more

Images Of Childhood

Until 4 November 2007 there is an exhibition in London called The Changing Face of Childhood: British Children’s Portraits and their Influence in Europe.  It is being held at the Dulwich Picture Gallery, London SE21.  And for those engaged with children, whether professionally as teachers, social workers, pedagogues, paediatricians, or informally as parents, grandparents and … Read more

Eight Ways to Bond with your Baby

One of the ways to keep your baby’s skin supple and healthy, is to include a few minutes of baby massage in your daily routine – just use a gentle baby oil. Not only is it great for mum and baby bonding, but it can also stop her crying and help her sleep. Cuddle your … Read more